Working With Energy
This is work with energy. With the hidden aspects of yourself that want to emerge, in a good sense. The parts of you that have been ignored, suppressed, or simply forgotten.
Your body holds memory. It holds tension. It holds unexpressed emotions and unspoken truths. Tantric massage creates space for these to surface, to be seen, to be released.
I work with your body not just as muscle and tissue, but as a map of your consciousness. Every touch is an invitation. Every breath is a doorway.
The Importance of Boundaries
Before we begin any session, we have a brief discussion. This conversation is essential.
We establish boundaries – clear, specific boundaries that will not be crossed during the session. This is non-negotiable. Your boundaries. My boundaries. This is what creates safety.
Yes, I work with the whole body. But what that means is different for each woman. Some women need space held around their hearts. Some around their belly. Some are ready to explore intimate touch. Some are not.
There is no “should” here. There is only what is true for you, right now, in this moment.
The boundaries we set at the beginning create the container. Inside that container, you are free to feel, to explore, to let go.
Beyond the Physical
Tantric massage is not an erotic massage. Let me be clear about this from the start.
Tantra doesn’t reject the erotic – it recognises it as one of our most powerful forces. It’s the power of creation, of love, of life itself. But tantric bodywork is beyond the sexual. It works with something deeper.
What Happens During a Session
Every session is unique because we are unique. But some elements are usually present:
- Breath work – connecting you to your body, to presence
- Conscious touch – slow, present, listening touch
- Energy work – moving and releasing stuck energy
- Full body massage – depending on the boundaries we’ve established
- Space for whatever emerges – sensation, emotion, release, insight
I’m not here to “fix” you or to make something happen. I’m here to hold space. To witness. To support whatever wants to move through you.
This Is Not Therapy, But It Can Be Therapeutic
I’m not a therapist. I don’t clinically work with trauma. But the body holds what the mind cannot process, and sometimes, in the presence of safe, conscious touch, things release.
Tears. Laughter. Anger. Joy. Silence. All of it is welcome.
Who Is This For?
Tantric massage is for women who:
- Want to reconnect with their body
- Feel disconnected from their sexuality
- Carry tension or numbness that they can’t explain
- You are curious about energy work and embodiment
- Want to explore pleasure in a safe, non-judgmental space
- Are on a spiritual path and sense the body is part of it
You don’t need to “know” tantra. You don’t need experience. You just need curiosity and willingness to be present with what is.
Learn more from the blog:
- Why I Use Sweet Almond Oil for Tantric Massage
The oil you choose matters. I use sweet almond oil because I’ve experienced it both giving and receiving — and I understand why it works. - Sacred vs. Sexual: Unlearning the Confusion
“So… is it sexual?” The question comes up every time I mention tantric massage. Sometimes asked directly, implied with a raised eyebrow, a knowing smile, or an uncomfortable shift in posture. - The Lotus: Why This Flower?
The lotus appears everywhere in yoga and tantra. In temples. In texts. In the way we sit, the way we breathe, the way we imagine energy moving through the body. - The Space Between Sessions
People ask me what happens in a tantric massage. But the real question is: what happens after? - The Body Never Lies: Listening to What’s Stored Within
Every unexpressed emotion, every swallowed word, every moment you had to “be strong” or “hold it together”, your body absorbed it. Stored it. Held it for you until you were ready to feel it. - Breathing Together: The Practice of Shared Presence
There’s a moment that happens in my sessions. Before any touch. Before the massage begins. Sometimes even before words. We sit facing each other. Eyes open. And we breathe. Not just in the same room. Not just at the same time.